Ruby Franke’s daughter exposes YouTube mother’s family rules before she was sentenced to up to 60 years for child abuse

Here are the rules which former parenting vlogger Ruby Franke would make her family follow prior to being found guilty of child abuse.

For years, Franke filmed her life as the mother of six children and uploaded it to YouTube, earning the 43-year-old around 2.5 million subscribers at her height of popularity.

Sharing videos to her account ‘8 Passengers’ Franke would share parenting advice tips alongside appearances from her then husband Kevin Franke and their six children.

Ruby Franke made a career as a parenting vlogger (YouTube/moms_of_truth)

Ruby Franke made a career as a parenting vlogger (YouTube/moms_of_truth)

Franke would later delete the channel in 2022 after separating from her husband before joining the podcast ConneXions, run by Jodi Hildebrandt.

However the entire facade would come crumbling down in 2023 when Franke and Hildebrandt were arrested and charged with six counts of aggravated child abuse. Authorities were alerted to the dire situation in Franke’s house after her 12-year-old son escaped through a window and alerted neighbours to the reality of his living conditions.

Franke and Hildebrandt would later plead guilty to four counts of aggravated child abuse, and they were sentenced to between one and 15 years for each count, to be served consecutively.

Under Utah law, the maximum sentence each woman can serve is 30 years, and the Utah Board of Pardons and Parole will determine how much time they actually spend behind bars.

Franke’s eldest daughter Shari has now spoken out about her experience growing up with Ruby as her mother, revealing some of the random rules her mother would impose in an interview with The Guardian.

Shari recalled how random rules and practices would often be introduced into family life, including needing to ask for permission to enter her bedroom after returning home from university unannounced.

The 21-year-old also recalled the moment Ruby and Jodi decided to exclude the two youngest children from getting Christmas presents one year as well as demanding they ask permission before speaking to older members of the family and be reprimanded if they interrupted.

Shari explained that her mother’s reasoning behind the decision was to create a ‘united front’ in order to ‘correct’ the children’s behaviour. She added that one Christmas Day the younger two had to watch the rest of their family open up presents before being made the clean away wrapping paper.

Shari has since published a memoir titled The House of My Mother in which she opens up about what it was like to grow up in the Franke household.

Shari Franke has now written a memoir about her experiences (YouTube/ABC News)

Shari Franke has now written a memoir about her experiences (YouTube/ABC News)

During an interview with ABC News’ Good Morning America, Shari explained how her mother’s abuse changed from physical to psychological after Hildebrandt moved into their home.

“I was like, I don’t like her [Hildebrandt], but maybe this is one good thing that’s come from it, is [Franke is] not yelling, she’s not hitting us any more,” she said.

“But it did become more psychological. And in a way, that was more damaging to me.”

Full timeline of the Ruby Franke case:

Starting a YouTube channel and initial suspicions

Franke started her parenting YouTube channel ‘8 Passengers’ with now ex-husband Kevin, amassing over 2.5 million subscribers before it was deleted in 2023 following the arrest.

Several subscribers became suspicious of child abuse, with a petition being signed for the police to investigate the family, citing the numerous questionable videos uploaded.

Franke joins ConneXions with Jodi Hildebrandt

The mum told critics in a 2021 interview for The Wrap that she was showing everyone ‘what a responsible mother looks like’.

She stopped uploading videos to the channel in 2022, joining Mormon therapist Hildebrandt’s ConneXions podcast.

Their divisive opinions on subjects such as eating disorders, blaming rape victims and criticising immigrants drew the wrong kind of attention.

The arrest

Franke and Hildebrandt were arrested on child abuse charges in August 2023.

The Santa Clara Public Safety Department were called to the Ivins neighbourhood in Utah after a neighbour was alerted by Franke’s ’emaciated’ 12-year-old son, who escaped to knock on their door to ask for help.

He had visible marks and wounds from duct tape put around his ankles, and asked for some food and water.

Police found his 10-year-old sister in a ‘similar physical condition of malnourishment’ in Hildebrandt’s house.

Family members speak out

Franke’s oldest daughter, Shari, wrote on Instagram on the day of the arrests: “Today has been a big day.”

She continued: “Me and my family are so glad justice is being served. We’ve been trying to tell the police and CPS for years about this, and so glad they finally decided to step up.”

In November, Kevin also officially filed for divorce from Franke, and called her actions to their children ‘horrific and inhumane’.

Franke and Hildebrandt are charged with six counts of child abuse

Just one week after their arrests, the pair were charged with six counts of felony child abuse.

YouTube banned Franke, deleting both 8 Passengers and ConneXions channels and blocking her from the social media platform.

Franke blames the abuse on Hildebrandt

Her attorneys released a statement that said: “Initially, Ms. Franke believed that Jodi Hildebrandt had the insight to offer a path to continual improvement. Ms. Hildebrandt took advantage of this quest and twisted it into something heinous,” according to Fox13.

It blamed Hildebrandt solely for isolating Franke from her family completely, distorting her morality.

Franke pleads guilty

Just three days after the statement was released, Franke pleaded guilty to four counts of aggravated child abuse. A court had heard how she had tried to convince her youngest children they were ‘evil and possessed’.

Franke and Hildebrandt are sentenced to prison for child abuse

On 20 February 2024, Franke and Hildebrandt were convicted and given four separate prison sentences for one to 15 years, with the length of each sentence decided by the Utah Board of Pardons and Parole.

During sentencing Franke apologised to her children and said she would ‘never stop crying for hurting their tender souls’.

She said: “My willingness to sacrifice all for you was masterfully manipulated into something very ugly.

“I took from you all that was soft and safe and good.”

The two women will not serve more than 30 years in a Federal Penitentiary because of a Utah law about consecutive sentences.

Additional words by Anish Vij.

If you’ve been affected by any of these issues and want to speak to someone in confidence regarding the welfare of a child, contact the NSPCC on 0808 800 5000, 10am-8pm Monday to Friday. If you are a child seeking advice and support, call Childline for free on 0800 1111, 24/7.

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Topics: YouTubeParentingCrime

Son of YouTube mum sentenced to prison for child abuse after giving parenting advice takes dig at recent sentencing

Son of YouTube mum sentenced to prison for child abuse after giving parenting advice takes dig at recent sentencing

He appeared in a TikTok with his girlfriend

Joshua Nair

Joshua Nair

Warning: This article contains discussion of child abuse which some readers may find distressing

YouTube mum Ruby Franke was handed her prison sentence this week, six months after being arrested.

The 42-year-old pleaded guilty to four counts of aggravated child abuse in December 2023 along with her business partner and mental health counsellor, Jodi Hildebrandt, 54.

Franke’s 12-year-old son escaped through a window in Hildebrandt’s house, alerting a neighbour to get help as he was covered in lacerations and had duct tape around his ankles and wrists, according to police.

His siblings were found in a similar state by the authorities.

Before her conviction, Franke, revealed the full extent of her crimes in her plea deal, admitting to holding her son’s underwater, kicking him while wearing boots, and subjecting him to physical labour in the sun with little food or water.

Making a name for herself with her YouTube channel, which amassed over two and a half million subscribers at its peak, Franke apologised to her children in court after her sentence, saying: “I will never stop crying for hurting your tender souls.”

Ruby Franke pleaded guilty to four counts of aggravated child abuse.

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Both mothers were given four separate prison sentences for one to 15 years, with the length of each sentence up to Utah Board of Pardons and Parole.

However, due to Utah law, this cannot exceed 30 years.

Following her conviction, one of Franke’s older children, Chad Franke, appeared in a TikTok with his girlfriend, seemingly taking a dig at the situation.

In the clip, which was deleted and has since been reposted on another account, the couple are dancing to a song.

When the camera is on his significant other, the text overlay reads: “You’d love my mom!”

But when it is pointed at him, it says: “My moms in prison.”

According to the Daily Mail, the original video was posted three days before his mum’s sentencing.

Viewers of the viral clip let their opinions be known in the comments below.

Franke's adult son made a TikTok, seemingly taking a dig at the situation.

TikTok/@the_internet_is_foreverr

One user commented: “He is justifiably hurt. It must have felt empowering to make this. Wishing Chad and his siblings healing from severe trauma.”

Another showed their support, saying: “They haven’t had friends in many years. I get happy seeing them with friends. Let alone gf/bf to take special care of them. Chad is happy bcuz his siblings didn’t deserve that.”

If you’ve been affected by any of these issues and want to speak to someone in confidence regarding the welfare of a child, contact the NSPCC on 0808 800 5000, 10am-8pm Monday to Friday. If you are a child seeking advice and support, call Childline for free on 0800 1111, 24/7.

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Topics: YouTubeParentingTrue CrimeMental HealthTikTok

Moment husband of YouTube mum witnesses her disturbing statement before she was given maximum sentence for child abuse

Moment husband of YouTube mum witnesses her disturbing statement before she was given maximum sentence for child abuse

YouTube mum Ruby Franke was given the maximum prison sentence for child abuse

Anish Vij

Anish Vij

Warning: This article contains discussion of child abuse which some readers may find distressing

The husband of YouTube mum Ruby Franke was in court to witnesses a judge hand her the maximum prison sentence for child abuse.

The mother-of-six, from the US, became a popular figure on YouTube after sharing parental advice content to millions of people, alongside her business partner, Jodi Hildebrandt.

Earlier this week, Franke, 42, and Hildebrandt, 54, both pleaded guilty to four counts of aggravated child abuse for trying to convince Franke’s two youngest children that they were ‘evil and possessed’ and needed to be punished.

Ruby Franke sobbed as she was sentenced.

YouTube/moms_of_truth

The pair were arrested last August at Hildebrandt’s house in Utah, after Franke’s 12-year-old son escaped through a window and asked a neighbour to call the police.

The boy, who was covered in wounds and had duct tape around his ankles and wrists, told the St George Police Department that Hildebrandt had put ropes on his limbs and used cayenne pepper and honey to dress his cuts.

State prosecuting attorney Eric Clarke said the environment the children were kept in was like ‘a concentration camp-like setting’.

Franke admitted in her plea deal to kicking her son while wearing boots, holding his head under water and closing off his mouth and nose with her hands.

The former YouTuber and Jodi Hildebrandt received the same sentence.

YouTube/ConneXions Classroom

Franke and her husband Kevin Franke launched 8 Passengers on YouTube back in 2015, racking up a large following as they documented their experiences of raising children.

She later began working with Hildebrandt’s counselling company, ConneXions Classroom, offering parenting seminars, while starting another YouTube channel.

“Kevin, my husband of more than 23 years. You are the love of my life. [I’m] so sorry to leave to you to finish what we both started together,” she said of her husband in her statement.

As the words were read out, Kevin and his two oldest children didn’t sit behind Franke in the courtroom, and it appears they didn’t even look at her when she spoke.

“The ending of our marriage is a tragedy. And you are wrapped around my heart in a knot I’ll never be able to undo,” she continued.

“To my babies; my six little chicks – you are a part of me.

“I will – I will never stop crying for hurting your tender souls.

“You are so precious to me, I’m sorry.

“My choice to live in fear of the world has created a great vulnerability and a blind spot for me – where I have broken hearts, and I’ve caused people to suffer and I have betrayed sacred trust.

“Watching my community respond to my charges with justice and mercy and grace and love is all the more evidence to me of how wrong I’ve been.

“This world is full of really good people.

“And finally, I’m sorry for twisting God’s word and distorting His doctrines.”

If you’ve been affected by any of these issues and want to speak to someone in confidence regarding the welfare of a child, contact the NSPCC on 0808 800 5000, 10am-8pm Monday to Friday. If you are a child seeking advice and support, call Childline for free on 0800 1111, 24/7.

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Topics: CrimeUS NewsYouTube

Two men were best friends for 60 years before making life-changing discovery

Two men were best friends for 60 years before making life-changing discovery

They may have always lived close by but hadn’t realised how close they actually were

Jess Battison

Jess Battison

There’s nothing like making friends with someone who you feel like you’ve known your whole life. You know, when you just click?

The kind of friendship where the ‘brother from another mother’ or ‘sister from another mister’ saying kicks in.

And these two men were best friends for 60 years before they made a life-changing discovery that changed that phrase entirely.

Alan Robinson and Walter MacFarlane had first become mates when played football together at prep school in Hawaii. But despite living less than 10 miles apart for most of their lives, it wasn’t until 2017 when they realised how close they really are.

The pair had been friends for decades. (Steve TV/YouTube)

The pair had been friends for decades. (Steve TV/YouTube)

While Robinson was adopted, MacFarlane never knew his father and his daughter, Cindy, really wanted to help him find out about him.

So, he used a DNA test to find out about his ancestry and found a match.

Turns out, someone had identical X chromosomes with MacFarlane, a user named Robi737.

Cindy said on Steve TV there were ‘over a thousand DNA matches’ and when she sought out the highest match, it listed Robi737 as ‘close family or sibling’.

“And my mum said to tell dad to call uncle Alan because he flew 737s as a pilot for Aloha Airlines and everyone called him Robbie as a nickname,” she explained.

But yep, you guessed it, Robi737 was in fact the username of Robinson on the site.

“When we got the results back it was discovered that Alan wasn’t only my best friend, he was my brother,” he said.

Really completing the saying, it turns out the pair do in fact share the same birth mother.

The pair told Sky News it had been an ‘overwhelming experience’ calling it the ‘best Christmas present’ at the time.

“I had a younger brother that I lost when he was 19, so I never had nieces or nephews. I thought I’ll never know my birth mother, I’ll never have any nieces or nephews,” Robinson explained.

And despite MacFarlane occasionally thinking they did look ‘a little bit’ alike, it never crossed either man’s mind that they may be related.

When they told their families, they told Steve TV there wasn’t ‘a dry eye in the whole place’.

Well, friends for 60 years but brothers for life it turns out. Now, that is an emotional one.

Featured Image Credit: Cindy Macfarlane-Flores

Topics: ParentingScienceUS NewsCommunityGood NewsYouTube

Eminem's daughter Hailie Jade revealed the surprisingly strict rules she had to follow when growing up

Eminem’s daughter Hailie Jade revealed the surprisingly strict rules she had to follow when growing up

The 28-year-old opened up on her childhood

Lucy Devine

Lucy Devine

Eminem’s daughter Hailie Jade has shared a glimpse into her childhood, explaining the one thing she never did while she was growing up.

Hailie, 28, recently launched her own podcast, Just A Little Shady.

In the first episode, she opened up about her time at high school, and how growing up in a famous family impacted her behaviour.

Hailie spoke about her childhood on her podcast.

Instagram/@hailiejade

Hailie was born back in 1995, when Eminem was in his early twenties.

The rapper went on to struggle with drugs and alcohol, and has since opened up about just how bad things became in the early noughties.

After his first admission to rehab in 2005, Eminem explained that he nearly overdosed after taking some blue pills, not knowing what they actually contained.

It turns out he’d taken methadone, which is a man-made opioid. The amount he consumed was equivalent to ‘four bags of heroin’.

“My doctor told me the amount of methadone I’d taken was equivalent to shooting up four bags of heroin,” he told VIBE magazine.

“I probably wouldn’t have taken it. But as bad as I was back then, I can’t even say 100 percent for sure.”

It’s not clear whether Eminem’s struggles with substance abuse impacted Hailie, but the podcast host explained how she never wanted to even be associated with anyone who was drinking as a teen.

“I didn’t drink or go to parties, everyone was doing that, but I didn’t. I was so naive to all of it,” she said.

“I remember going to a football game, it was freezing cold outside, everyone was having the time of their lives, and I was like ‘am I missing something?’

“One of my friends came up to me and was talking right in my face, and I was like, ‘you’re drinking’. Literally so appalled. It hit me in that moment.

“I thought that even being associated with anyone there that was drinking I was gonna get in trouble.”

Hailie explained that she never actually got in trouble growing up, or ever did anything to warrant being told off.

“I was so straight and narrow,” she added.

Eminem and Hailie back in 2022.

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Hailie, who co-hosts the podcast with her friend Brittany Ednie, also recalled a time when she invited her friend on to her dad’s tour bus, thinking it was something everyone’s dad had.

“I feel like I vividly remember being in your kitchen and you were like ‘do you want to come on the tour bus?” said Brittany.

“I thought it was normal!” Hailie added.

Eminem also has two other children – Stevie Laine, 21 and Alaina Marie, 30, who are both adopted by the rapper.

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